H.E.L.P: I Am Pretty Yet No Man Wants Me, All They Ever Want With Me Is S*x


Since I slept with my best good friend’s brother whose girlfriend is expecting a child for him, I invested a difficult time in the run-up to Christmas. It almost wrecked our relationship also.

I do not want to sound as desperate or make love to lady’s guys yet I am afraid no-one will ask me out ever.

I am 28 and not in a relationship. I would like absolutely nothing more than a great guy. My pals always agree that I am appealing, that I have a great personality and a lot going for me, so why can’t guys see this?

I am over weight yet that doesn’t change me inside. Guys just can not see by means of the weight issue, and those that do show a passion only see me in secret. They show up at my residence late at night, and neglect me if we see in the day time in public.

The other day I received an SMS from a married man friend of mine. I invited him around in the evening and we had made love. It was enjoyable but I understand he’s not even considering leaving his spouse for me.

I have tried net dating once I get to meet the people they either want to quickly get down with me or I never ever hear from them any more. I send them pictures, tell them my dress size, but when we see face-to-face they say I’m not what they expected.

Everyone I know of spend X-mas with a companion that loves them. Other people see a girl who’s constantly chuckling and joking, but deep down I am very miserable and sad. I don’t know how much longer I can keep up the charade.

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9 Comments

  • actually I agree with u , ur really beautiful, but u need more self esteem and self confidence and wait for the rite guy, don't sell your self cheaply to every tom dick and harry.remember your an african queen.

  • well , I think you haven't met your guy yet , don't feel less of urself.If you don't mind , i will like to meet you…u can drop a message for me via comsyl@ec21.com.

  • oluwatosin 1 year ago

    U guys r really trying doing a great work.keep doing gr8 fins.pls tell d fat gurl dat sm1 wants her nd ready 2 hv her.

  • Black Zeus 1 year ago

    What a shame? You are Looking at things from one point of view, believe me when I say, it makes no difference, if you cant live as a single and be fulfilled then you being in a relationship, you will only sap the joy from someone else and before you know it, he will start avoiding you.
    If am to advice, firstly work on your self esteem, its a mess you dont need to tell a guy you are disperate, a guy can see it in your eye, your body language, the way you talk and even the way you dress

    try different things…….a new hair style, join a group in church,read a book, get new hubbies …..if you need to talk holla at me on 08186297710 peace

  • Durojaiye Joseph 1 year ago

    This is Pastor Joe pls contact me on johleotyta@yahoo.com also you need Jesus. God is able to make all grace abound unto you.

  • LADY, YOU ONLY LACK ONE THING AND THAT IS JESUS, INVITE HIM INTO YOUR LIFE AND HE INVITE THE RIGHT MAN INTO YOUR LIFE, TRY HIM AND YOU WILL EVER BE GREATFULL TO HIMMMMMMMMMMMM.

  • Then pray faithfully to GOD in HEAVEN with patience for a good man to marry u and GOD will open the door well for u, becos there's someone for everyone on this earth before the end-time of the world that is rapidly coming.

  • Ynd_l 1 year ago

    All these scammers claiming pastors!!! ?Is there no way one can help withouth claiming to be a pastor? Meanwhile, with churches everywhere, the whole society is still messed up. Hypocrites

  • What is your name baby?